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Q. Pinterest has given us a whole heap of styling ideas, how can we enlist the help of a professional to help us pull it off, and what do we need to consider?
A. Laurie Edwards says: One of the most important considerations when planning your wedding overall is how much your wish list is going to cost, and your venue styling is no different. We recommend that you book in an initial consultation with your chosen stylist as soon as you've booked your venue and have a good idea of the direction you want your wedding's look to take.
It's a good idea to work with a stylist who really knows your venue so that they have a sound knowledge of what does and doesn't work in that specific space. Asking for the venue's recommended supplier list or researching prospective stylists online are good starting points.
Remember, styling is all about enhancing and working with your venue. It's not always about cramming in as many features and products as you can. A simple chair dressing, a change of tablecloth or napkin, the addition of a charger or twinkly backdrop may be all your venue needs. It's an old cliché, but so true – less is definitely more.
Q. We're hoping to have a cosy Christmas wedding. What do you recommend we look for in a venue to make sure we can still enjoy our day to the fullest without the use of outside space?
A. Fleur Record-Smith says: You need to be particularly discerning when planning a Christmas wedding – I recommend that your tick list include a venue that seamlessly combines the old with the new. Somewhere that enables you to have cosy experiences, like a beautiful old house with roaring fires where guests can relax with a glass of mulled Kentish cider and a splash of brandy, which always goes down a treat here. Then the new element of the venue, like a bright orangery, should enable you to bring the outside in, with grounds full of romantic hot-spots beautifully illuminated with festoon lighting and fairylights to keep your photographer and videographer happy! In order to maximise the daylight it's important that you work with a dedicated wedding team that allows you to be flexible with your timings, as the best time to marry in the winter is at around 1pm, sitting down for dinner no later than 3.30pm – somewhat earlier than a summer wedding. Ideally you want a venue that enables you to achieve a romantic dinner illuminated by real candlelight to dazzle and inspire. This year, couples are working with their wedding stylists to create their own cosy winter wonderlands with a frosted sugar look that requires a white box background, and a sparkler send-off. We're so excited we can't wait to get festive!
Q. What's hot in winter wedding styling this year?
A. Daniel J Kyte says: The boho theme has been at the forefront of many couples' minds this year and we've found this has gradually crept into winter wedding styling.
Couples are coming to us with Victorian styling ideas from ornate shabby-chic picture frames holding table numbers and menus, to wrought iron geometric frames bearing hanging foliage – there's much less bling overall.
Colour palettes have become darker and shades are toned down to the ever-so-traditional burgundy and racing green. Even the popular Christmas gold has been replaced by tones of copper. We're also starting to see the need to incorporate red and green tartans into designs, to accentuate a warming Christmas look.
Floristry has also followed this trend and we've noticed that the use of eucalyptus, ruscus and rosemary has not only flowed throughout last autumn and into this year; but is starting to etch itself into the winter setups of 2019. The most popular arrangements here at KC Weddings and Events are wreaths with lanterns, tall geometric frames with asymmetric foliage or tall cylindrical glass vases with candles on a bed of foliage. These arrangements are truly spectacular and look divine.
Daniel J Kyte
Q. We'd love to host our wedding in our back garden. What do we need to think about?
A. Simon Pollard says: When you're holding a wedding in your own outdoor space, it can add to your own garden's romance. Other than the obvious considerations, such as whether your garden is big enough to hold a marquee and whether there's adequate parking available, you should also give the following areas some thought…
- How does the sun travel through your garden? This may determine where your photographer will take your important photos.
- Is there adequate hardstanding for outdoor seating, the ceremony or arrival drinks?
- Are there shady areas, such as a pergolas, for a hot day?
- What walkways are there to direct guests to different places, such as the marquee or toilets.
- What flowers or shrubs will be in bloom? Will they need pruning or weeding?
- Which scenic backdrop will be used for photographs? Does it need any special preparation or additions?
- What's the condition of the lawn? Can this be used for entertainment?
- Ponds need to be covered or cordoned off.
- Does any additional planting need to be put in place or hired if you have a themed or coloured wedding?
- What preparations need to be made for any disabled guests – e.g., matting or ramps?
Q. How can we use styling to really bring our outdoor wedding to life?
A. Holly Dallison says: An outdoor wedding is not without its challenges! Having a stylist on board can help with many of the practicalities while helping to ensure your vision is bought to life. Here are a few tips…
- If you're thinking of a ceremony backdrop, it should frame the bride and groom and encourage the eye to travel through into the view beyond, complementing rather than distracting from the natural environment.
- We've noticed a steady rise in the popularity of relaxed catering, especially grazing tables. Look for tables and chairs that are attractive without tablecloths and can be arranged in any number of ways.
- Continue the outdoors theme through your table decorations. Remember to incorporate earthy tones or bright pops of colour, lots of texture, height variations and textiles. Think clay pots, bark-covered tea light holders, moss and lush greenery. Couple these with vintage objects to create both interest and functionality.
- Every outdoor wedding needs seating so guests can relax. Turn this necessity into a feature using vintage pieces that create an eclectic and relaxed style. Or how about a chill-out zone?
- Consider taking the inside out. Weather permitting, try lining your ceremony aisle with a selection of layered vintage rugs.
- Because of the temperamental British weather, it's always good to have areas of cover, and consider nominating someone to move hired items inside should it start to rain.
Q. How can I make my big day into a winter wonderland?
A. Simon Morris says: Picture the scene: a beautiful country manor house, snow on the ground, crisp bright blue sky – a glorious day for a wedding. Although in this country, what we are more likely to be faced with during the winter months is a cold, grey, wet day!
Your photographer will need to plan for both scenarios and everything in between. Each has its own issues to overcome.
- Cold – can affect batteries, brides and guests. Quick photo sessions outside are in order, and clear planning is what's required.
- Wet – contingency planning is a must. Where will group shots take place? Are umbrellas needed? And so on.
- Dark – lighting is vital to the quality of your images. Your photographer will need to use a flash and possibly even be equipped with studio lighting to ensure they are clear.
Flexibility is key. Discuss with your photographer where the opportunities may be. If you get that moment of light in the midst of the drizzle, go for it!
Q. How can I turn my big day into a winter wonderland?
A. Daniel J Kyte says: The perfect festive winter wonderland wedding should consist of nothing but opulence, class and, most of all, stylish flair.
Using white and silver birch attached to twisting Manzanita branches, sprayed white is a perfect way to achieve this. The gnarled old white glittering branches twist and turn and create a woodland look for a perfect Christmas card image.
Another strong contender is white sequin. Adding a slight touch of bling without going overboard, for me they symbolise the shimmer of fallen snow under the moonlight. Often, people make the mistake of using a silver sequin backdrop or tablecloth, which will wow but will also make the wedding look bling-tastic. Fine but not what we are looking to achieve here.
For opulence, go down the silver or white candelabra route. A small amount of crystal stars or diamanté garlands can be hung from these.
Most importantly, if you decide to DIY, then I would recommend you consult Pinterest. Enjoy your special day!
Daniel J Kyte